How do you use the law of attraction to attract your soul mate?
The law of attraction says that
you attract into your life whatever you focus your energy on –
whether that’s wanted or unwanted.
The “vibes” you put out into the Universe are
either positive or negative and
the Universe responds accordingly.
Analyze Yourself
This is apparent in how you appear when you go out. If you are feeling good about yourself, you wear something nice, smile, and make eye contact with people – thus sending out positive vibes.
This is apparent in how you appear when you go out. If you are feeling good about yourself, you wear something nice, smile, and make eye contact with people – thus sending out positive vibes.
If you are consumed by your thoughts and worries, you tend to throw on whatever is available and remain internally focused when out and about.
You can tell whenever you are talking with someone and they suddenly seem like they are no longer there – as if they were following your conversation up to a point, but then you lost them. Often, you can also tell when you’ve just said something that your conversational partner found offensive or disagreed with – their body language radically shifts.
Many times, we aren’t even aware of how we present ourselves to others. We don’t realize that changes in tone or body language come across as dramatically as they can. We can’t see ourselves slouching, crossing our arms, leaning away from the person, and assuming other defensive body positions. Yet the person we speak with can sense our vibes. They can tell when we are angry or annoyed or distracted – even if we are halfheartedly trying to fake being interested.
If you want to attract your soul mate, start by looking at yourself.
You can tell whenever you are talking with someone and they suddenly seem like they are no longer there – as if they were following your conversation up to a point, but then you lost them. Often, you can also tell when you’ve just said something that your conversational partner found offensive or disagreed with – their body language radically shifts.
Many times, we aren’t even aware of how we present ourselves to others. We don’t realize that changes in tone or body language come across as dramatically as they can. We can’t see ourselves slouching, crossing our arms, leaning away from the person, and assuming other defensive body positions. Yet the person we speak with can sense our vibes. They can tell when we are angry or annoyed or distracted – even if we are halfheartedly trying to fake being interested.
If you want to attract your soul mate, start by looking at yourself.
What image do you present to people?
If you can, video tape a conversation between you and a friend and take notes.
Do you look confident and attractive?
Do you put out the right vibes that say you are a warm, funny, caring individual?
Do you have any quirks or nervous habits that you can change?
Inventory Your Relationships
Next, take a brief inventory of the different relationships that are currently in your life.
Which relationships support and encourage you?
Which are negative and critical?
If you have more negative than positive relationships in your life, ask yourself why you attract and are attracted to negative people.
Now, think about those positive relationships you have.
Now, think about those positive relationships you have.
What attracts you to those people?
What do you enjoy and appreciate most about them?
Get completely clear about both the negative qualities you don’t want to attract and the positive qualities you do want to attract. Shift your focus and attention so that whenever you see those positive qualities in people you meet, you befriend them.
Get completely clear about both the negative qualities you don’t want to attract and the positive qualities you do want to attract. Shift your focus and attention so that whenever you see those positive qualities in people you meet, you befriend them.
Attract Your Soul Mate
How can you apply this to attracting your soul mate?
Start by building a list of all the negative characteristics you’ve experienced in your previous relationships. This is the list of things you don’t want – or potential deal breakers – in your next relationship.
If a number of your previous mates shared similar negative characteristics like ignoring you, bad communicator, pessimistic, no job, travels too much, etc, perhaps you can uncover a pattern and stop yourself from dating the next person who fits in with your exes.
Now, create a list of all the positives you want in your relationship.
Now, create a list of all the positives you want in your relationship.
What do you want?
What are the positive qualities you need to feel loved, cherished, admired, and respected?
Finally, take a hard look at yourself.
Finally, take a hard look at yourself.
Often the things we are most critical about in others are things we do ourselves.
Are you emitting positive vibes?
Do you meet all your requirements for having a positive, loving relationship?
Or do you still harbor baggage and bad feelings towards people in your past?
You will attract that which you focus on, so if you want the ideal relationship with The One, you must live your life to its fullest.
You will attract that which you focus on, so if you want the ideal relationship with The One, you must live your life to its fullest.
Forgive and let go of any negativity you still hold on to or that will become an obstacle to attracting your soul mate.
With our thanks for the article to Ms. Harmony Rousseau.
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With Love & Light,
Dave & Eugen
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